“Connecting” With the Vaccine Hesitant Patient
Check this out. What you will see is a really well-written piece on how a physician can have a meaningful conversation with a patient who is hesitant to get vaccinated herself, and/or is hesitant about getting her children vaccinated. The message here is a simple one, but it is lost on many of the physicians with whom I have conversations in my On Doctors’ MindsSM project.
The punchline is, while most doctors try to convince such patients of the vaccines’ safety and efficacy by talking “science,” this doctor’s interaction with this patient, over several different occasions, is actually the right way to do it. Sure, the practitioner has to be patient (pun intended) enough to penetrate the diffuse “I’m just going to wait and see” objection that so many patients offer. BUT. This patient’s reason for eventually breaking down and following the doctor’s vaccine recommendation, “You saw me for me,” is genuinely profound. Understanding a patient’s psychological backstory here is essential to communicating at a meaningful level that often, as in this case, has nothing to do with the “science.”
Bottom Line. So what we actually have here is a special case of Salesmanship 101. Listen carefully before you start talking. Patients recognize the hackneyed, and to them irrelevant, science-based standard speech that many doctors have developed about the COVID-19 vaccines, and just tune it out.
There is a general principle here that merits some consideration!